In life, there are two kinds of people.
Those people you grow up with, and those that with whom you don't/they don't-

It's strange, because though human life is marked by the process of 'growing up', becoming 'mature' and 'developing', to me, at least, growth is not a constant process, neither does it occur at the same rate.

Sometimes ages can pass by but there you remain, the same-

the world's a whirl; time flies by; people break into your life, things get done-

still you/they don't grow up; you/they don't get 'bigger', you/they don't learn.

but then there are also times,

when some things happen,

when you meet some people-

and you find you grow up really fast-

(whether you like it or not)

you discover things about yourself you never knew,

they could be bad or good, interesting or mundane;

sometimes it scares you, sometimes it makes you content;

it's not really within your control, regardless.

(and) I always thought it was easier to be with someone after you've both (almost) completed growing up already-

known almost everything you need to know about yourself; fell down countless times and (then)picked yourself up; learnt from previous mistakes and finally become crystal clear with what you want (with yourself and life),

and now, still, I think that's true.

but though it's not easy,

you make a hell lot of mistakes,

maybe get hurt and lose part of yourself along the way,

but I suppose growing with somebody,

that's a lot more meaningful,

isn't it?

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记得第一次听到这首歌时，那感觉。

就觉得，

怎么可能会有人有相同的感受，

还把它写成歌，唱了出来？！

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I knew it, it's as I predicted;

it fell totally within my expectations,

but still let me relish actually saying it/typing it

'My boyfriend is Vice-president'

ha.ha.ha.