Does it mean people can't change?

or does it mean people can't do anything but (change)?
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some questions have no answers,

some problems have no solutions,

some things you can never get,

some people you fail to understand,

sometimes it makes you wonder if life is a rhetoric question?

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playing in my mind countless times this sunday morning-

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People come alone,
and they die alone,

for (at least) a sizeable part of their life,
live in solitude,

but/so why am I sometimes tired of being alone?