"there are be 12345678865432123456789 reasons - good prospects, a respectable paycheck, an understanding boss, amiable colleagues, a conducive working environment,

but if it's not what you want to do (with your life) there's no reason to stay.'

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when you first find out someone loves you (and inevitably at some point unbelievably finds you perfect), you are first overwhelmed with disbelief and doubt. Then after you get used to being perceived as perfect (or at least somewhat attractive), you start to become complacent and lazy, forgetting the little things and habits you used to religiously (if not at least occasionally) adhere to to maintain a more attractive outlook.

True?

I actually find that quite apt.

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可能你觉得是小事，

可能它微不足道，

可是对我-

那是我最大的污点，最严重的缺陷。

但是，我还是告诉了你，

因为你，

是你。

是最特别的。

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In a similar way why we are endlessly intrigued and amused by twins, and how the more symmetrical a face is, the more attracted we are to it,

the true reason (in my humble opinion), why people who look alike get together/become physically attracted to each other, is because by nature, humans are attracted so symmetrical things, or things that come in pairs.

finding similarities/grouping like with like is what we do best,

so it's really no surprise.

or it could be just a need for some inner comfort really-

because loving/liking someone really (physically/psychologically/emotionally) like yourself,

isn't that the best proof that you, are loveable/likeable?